Wishing You All....

A very very Happy Holiday and a Happy, Healthy New Year! Thank you so much for following my blog and all of your lovely comments despite my lack of posts. I hope to change that after the New Year!!!

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year....

This is by far my absolute most favorite time of the year! There is something so nostalgic to me about the holidays. I actually starting dating my husband on Christmas night 9 years ago, so the holiday holds a special significance to me. That and the pretty twinkly lights, the crisp air where you can almost smell Christmas as it gets closer, baking cookies and other holiday treats, making loved ones gifts, etc. I just love it all! So though this post is very short, I will be posting various holiday themed recipes, handmade gifts, and some menu ideas as well. Also, check out this nifty website where you can create your own wishlists!!! The widget is in my blog margin. If you join and create your own wishlists don't forget to add me as a friend - I would love to see what your wishing for ;) I will be adding different things periodically starting this week, so don't forget to stop back and check them out! I also wanted to share a couple pic's from a place we go to all the time called Johnson's Farm. They had the whole playground area done up in lights, had a reindeer and also marshmallow roasting. We'll definitely be going back a couple times! So fun!!

The gorgeous reindeer! Her name is Vixen and I so wanted to go in there and hug her!! lol

My Little Man & I roasting marshmallows

Me & My Sweetie <3

Austin & I under the lights

PS - thank you SO much to everyone that commented about my poor little piggy boy =( I was very sad that day and your comments really cheered me up. I am such an animal lover and I had no idea how much I would miss the little fella when he was gone....

Harry Potter Visits My Home

The Halloween Party for my son's class yesterday was SO much fun!!! Kindergarten is such a fun age, I really really enjoy going into the class to help out. The school (Pre-school through 2nd grade) did a Halloween parade and then we went back to the classroom to play The Mummy Wrap game, Halloween Bingo and my favorite, the Touchy Feely game! Oh my goodness this was SOOO much fun. We had little shoeboxes with holes cut out of the front and each one contained a monster part for the kids to reach in and touch. There was one with monster hair and teeth (faux fur and tic tacs), another with eyeballs and a brain (grapes and a wet sponge) and one more with guts (cooked spaghetti). If you could have seen their little faces when they stuck their hands in (and promptly pulled them back out quickly) - it was hysterical!!!

Here is a pic of my little guy in his costume! I did the scar on his forehead and it looked quite good with a little cream eyeshadow and a little powder etc to give it some raised dimension ;) Trick or Treating with friends today and then a nice relaxing rest of the weekend! Happy Halloween All!!!

The Great Coat Debacle & Halloween

Hello! So sorry for my lack of posts lately!! I've had my son home sick from school a couple times and between that, running around, volunteering at his school and getting ready for Halloween, I've been crazy busy!!! So I last posted about a coat that I had ordered from Modcloth after deciding to return the coat from Anthro. Well let me tell you this, when my husband returned that Anthro coat, I was soooo upset. Did I feel silly being that upset about a coat?! Sure I did. But I felt as though the coat and I had bonded, that we had formed a friendship and were truly meant for one another! But I still returned the Deep Woods Coat and my search for something I would love equally as much continued. I did receive the Anastasia Coat from Modcloth and it was very pretty, but sadly it was not for me. I even went to the J.Crew Factory store this past weekend and there were some gorgeous coats on sale! A charcoal colored wool trench and lady coats in apple green, purple, bright red and black. I am embarrassed to say that I purchased not one, but two coats (for the same price combined as the Anthro coat) but then returned them before we left because they just weren't what I was looking for. I know, you're probably thinking exactly what my husband said to me multiple times - "It's just a coat for pete sake!!!" I know it's just a coat.... But that didn't stop me. So my husband and I just celebrated our 7 year anniversary this past Monday and what did I get for a gift? The Anthro coat!!! lol. My long lost friend is finally home ;)

Tomorrow is going to be a busy day of Halloween activities at my Son's school so I need to rest up! He is going to be Harry Potter this year (since that is who everyone says he looks like, lol) It was a last-minute choice as the couple costumes were pondering just didn't work out. Here is a photo of him....


What do you think? Is Harry Potter the perfect costume choice or what?! We got him the robe, the scarf and the wand =) Pictures to follow soon. I hope everyone has a very Happy Halloween!!!!

New Coat!

I posted before about the Deep Woods Coat that I recently purchased from Anthro.... I thought this coat was really beautiful and really fell in love with it. However, I was experiencing some serious "buyers remorse" over the $268 price tag - especially when I got an email from Piperlime on Monday that they were having a sale!!! So I decided to return the Anthro coat and to buy a couple pairs of much needed Fall boots (along with an extra 20% coupon) and get a less expensive coat. I happened to be reading Chloe's Blog and was reading a great post about coats when I noticed that she had a little widget for ModCloth on her page, along with a 10% coupon code (cute10)!! I decided to head over and check it out. I was coming across all these adorable blouses, dresses and accessories when I decided maybe I should check for a coat when I came across this lovely.....



The gorgeous Anastasia Coat, which I actually like a bit better than the deep woods coat and it's less $$ with a coupon too! Score!! (thanks Chloe!!!)

So since ModCloth is known to sell out of popular items and this just popped up as a new item today, I bought it. I had a feeling that if I didn't it might be one of those things that would sell out and I would never be able to find it again and would spend the rest of my life thinking "Why didn't I just buy that coat?!?!?" I've come across a couple items like that in my life and yes, I still think about them, lol. Now let's hope I like it as much in person as I did on the site!!! Review coming soon ;)

Italian Pot Roast & A Spin-Off Recipe

So lately I have been terrible at planning our dinners! Everything is last minute and thrown together. But now that the weather is cooler I decided to dust off my cookbooks and start making some cool weather favorites. Tonight we are having some Italian Pot Roast from the cookbook "Kitchen Life" by Art Smith (Oprah's Personal Chef). I've made this recipe before and it's pretty good! I usually make my Pot Roast with brown gravy etc and this is a nice twist. Plus the left-overs can be used in a different dish the next night ;) So here it is...

Italian Pot Roast

~ 2 TB olive oil, or more if needed
~ One 3 3/4 lb bottom round beef roast
~ 1 large onion chopped (I used half this and used a chopper to finely dice
~ 1 Med Carrot, diced (I omitted)
~ 1 Med Celery Rib, diced (I omitted this as well)
~ 2 Garlic Cloves
~ 3/4 Cup dry red wine, such as Zinfandel or Shiraz
~ One 28oz Can tomatoes in thick puree, chopped
~ 1 tsp dried oregano
~ 1 tsp dried basil

This recipe called for using a dutch oven over the stove-top, but I like my pot roast falling apart, so I used a crock pot (slow-cooker). If you would like the stove-top recipe email me and I will send it to you!

I just heated the oil on the stove-top at medium heat. I took the roast, rinsed and dried with a paper towel. Then I rubbed it with a little salt and pepper and then seared all sides. You want to wait at least 5 min per side before turning over. You want all that flavor seared into the meat to keep all the juices in while cooking!

While I was searing the meat I cut up my onions, garlic and veggies (if you're using them). I put my tomatoes, wine and herbs right into the slow-cooker and stirred. Then I added my diced veggies and garlic. Once the meat was done I put it into the slow-cooker as well. To add a little more flavor to the sauce I took my empty tomato can and filled it with about a 1/2 cup water and poured into the pan to de-glaze all the browned bits of flavor and then poured that in the crock as well. Just make sure to turn on your oven's fan and stand back when pouring the water in!!

I turned the slow-cooker on high, placed an old kitchen towel on top (my cooker splatters) and voila! I will most likely serve with some steamed green beans.

Best of all, you can chop up the leftovers and toss with some penne the next night! Just chop the leftover roast, add some sauce along with your regular pasta sauce, a little basic and some Parmesan and you have another easy dinner! Enjoy!!

And the next Bachelor is......

Jake!!!! And I couldn't be more excited!!! I missed the announcement on DWTS last night and woke up this morning to an announcement on the Comcast newsreel. I definitely developed a MAJOR crush on Jake on the last season of The Bachelorette! I was immediately smitten by his "boy next door" good looks and his kindness and charm. Can he be a little intense? Sure. But does it really matter?! I am curious to see how it all plays out this season for him. I'm wondering how he'll handle all the catty behavior that will very likely ensue on the show. I also think he's going to have a really hard time sending women home as well. We will see! C'mon January!!!

What do you think of Jake as the next Bachelor?

Oh How I Love thee....

Let Me count the ways... My wonderful husband took me to Anthropologie this past weekend to check out the Deep Woods Toggle Coat. I completely fell head over heels with it online and even though I was quite hesitant on the price, we went to the store so I could try it on. I was a little concerned with the thickness, or rather lack thereof on this coat, but the wool seems very heavy, so it should keep out the cold for the most part. I tried on the coat and even my husband told me I just had to get it! The cut is SO flattering and it's such a classy look!! Now I just need it to start getting cold out so I can wear it ;)

I need to go to Rehab... Fall TV Rehab that is ; )

So all the delightful Fall shows have pretty much started with the exception of a few starting back up this coming week. I am a major nightime TV addict and my head is already spinning with all of these new shows and all of my fav's back on tv ..... finally!!! After months and months of absolutely nothing to watch. Falling victim to whatever movies were on the cable channels and renting movies on Netflix. Yes, Fall TV is back!!!

I've been recently getting into The Vampire Diaries and I like it so far. Yes, I am one of those women who still watch the teen shows. There is nothing wrong with it! My husband even watches them with me (he is SO going to kick me for outing him in blogland, lol). I will admit it, they are amongst some of my favorite shows - Gossip Girl, 90210, One Tree Hill, The City, The Hills, etc. Love, love, love.

I tried out a couple new shows this week as well. Mercy, The Forgotten and Eastwick. Like them all so far! Eastwick sucked me in right away and I'm a HUGE Lindsay Price fan (loved her on Lipstick Jungle!). I can't wait to see what happens next week! And Grey's is back on! I didn't love the Season Premier, but I know it will get better... hoping at least. If not, I can always goggle McSteamy the whole show ;)

And exciting things happening this week!! Desperate Housewives, Brothers & Sisters, The City, Real World/Road Rules Challenge and Private Practice. I. Can't. Wait!!!

So what do you think about the new Fall shows so far? What are your fav's?

Winter Coats

So sorry I've been MIA! I've had a lot going on with going to my various dental appointments and trying to fit the pieces together in my TMJ puzzle! As well as celebrating my 29th bday this past weekend as well. It was a lovely day of lunch, shopping, and a wonderful dinner with delicious cake with my two men!! But I came down with a sinus infection/bronchitis on Sunday and have been sick all week. Now the little man has it too, ugh.... You just can't win! On a positive note, I've been looking for a new winter coat and got an email from Editors Closet today. They are having an Eli Tahari sale and there are a couple nice coats in there - they look really warm too, which is always a plus!! Let me know what you think....







I will most likely get a regular wool lady coat, but I always thought that these coats, though not completely my style, look so great on other women!!! So what's the verdict? Yay or nay? ; )

In Rememberance of 9/11

I will never forget this day as long as I live. I still remember exactly what I was doing the moment the first plane hit one of the twin towers. I was driving to work and I heard what happened on the radio. When I got to the office everyone was watching the news and we all watched in horror as the second tower was hit. Those images are seared into my mind and when I close my eyes I can still see them vividly. My heart goes out to all of the victims of 9/11 - whether you are a survivor, one of the lives lost, or a friend or family member of a person lost in this tragedy. I will never forget...

I have loved you forever...

I have wanted these Michael Kors boots forever and since my birthday is coming up, am considering taking the plunge and getting them, but I just can't make up my mind. Would I wear them enough? Would they go with enough? What color would I get? Ugh, decisions decisions!! I really like all of the colors except the bright red. Here they are in the darker brown...



They also come in a lighter shade of brown, black, an earthy green color and garnet (which is gorgeous, but I don't think it would match enough). What do you think? Like? Not like?

O...M...G... YUM!!!

So I'm sitting here in my completely uninspired, lazy and downright "blah" mood scrolling through blog updates and I came across this little gem of a post from Lauren at Lovely Life of Lauren about a company called Coconut Bliss




I clicked on the link to the website and nearly fell over when I saw all the different flavors and that they are made soy, dairy and gluten free and also made with agave! Being that I'm on a diet and don't eat artificial sweetener and try to avoid tons of gluten and dairy, I was so excited to learn that my local Whole Foods and Wegmans both carry this product and I was actually planning on going food shopping tonight ;) Thanks again for the post Lauren!!!

Designer Clothing for Less!

I am still in the process of getting my next couple Lust Lists together to post! To tide you over until then I have some links to some great sites where you can score designer clothing, accessories and even makeup and skincare for less! If you are not a member of these sites you are definitely missing out!!! These are personal links and I do get a referral fee paid to me (but only if you place an order) - but these sites are invite only. It is free to join and I have been a member of a few of them for a while now and have placed a few orders!!! Check them out ;)

HauteLook

Gilt Group

Gilt Fuse

And last. but not least, My Fav! RueLaLa


Just make sure to check the return policies on the sites. A lot of them allow returns, but it may vary depending on the sale. I'm a member of a couple other sites as well, but these are the best in my opinion and have the best assortment of gorgeous clothes, bags, jewelry etc. Enjoy!!!

Date Night - Dinner & A Movie

Last night Hubby and I FINALLY went out on a much needed date! We grabbed a quick bite at our local Cosi, made a quick trip to Borders and then made our way to the Mall to go see ....



Which I was blown away by and LOVED!!! It was everything I hoped it would be and then some. The book is my all-time favorite book ever and even though I was very happy with the cast choice I was so nervous with how the movie would turn out after reading mixed reviews. I thought that for the most part it translated really well into a movie and they did a very good job. Eric Bana was perfect as Henry and Rachel McAdams (one of my fav actresses) made a stunning Claire! The movie sucked me in just as much as the book did. I am still reeling (in a good way) today and now I want to read the book again =) Definitely a wonderful date night!!!

Has anyone else read the book and/or seen the movie? If so, what did you think?

Weirdest Movie Ever!

So last night there was nothing on (as usual) and we had gotten a Netflix movie in the mail, so we decided to watch it. It was movie that I had put in the cue a while back because I saw that it was coming out soon and heard it was good. I had no idea what it was even about. So we put the movie in the last night and started watching it and I have to say that it was one of the most odd movies I have ever seen. The movie was called Surveillance with Bill Pullman and Julia Ormond.


It was about these people that kind of went on a killing spree and Bill and Julia play agents trying to catch them. There are also crooked cops, drug users, and lots of violence and grit - just your average fun, family film ;) LOL. But in all seriousness it was just a strange movie. I only watched the whole thing because it was so confusing and strange that I wanted to see if it was going to go anywhere. There was a twist, but I don't want to ruin it for anyone that might want to see it. I wouldn't waste your time though!

Tonight we have the new "Last House on the Left" so we'll see how that is!!

Fall Lust List Part 1

Yes, that's right .... Part 1! Because there are so many fabulous, gorgeous, and stunning lust-worthy items out there that I haven't even finished compiling that they must all be listed in multiple posts!! We'll start with my #1 most coveted item that I want in the absolute worst way and am literalling dying for it to go on sale in the next couple months because even as beautiful as it is, I am not paying $88 for a shirt, especially when I want at least two....




The Silk Frances Camifrom J.Crew. Even thought I think this color is soo pretty, it would not look good on me. So I would probably opt for the plain neutrals of Dark Slate and/or Ivory




The Cotton Corsage Cardi is also very pretty in person and is a more dense cotton material that would be ideal for the Fall




And last but not least, the Smoky Gray Trench from Martin & Osa. I've been looking for a Trench as a classic Spring/Fall coat for a while now and I love the unexpected Charcoal color!

More to come soon!!!

Reminiscing...

There has been nothing, absolutely NOTHING on TV lately!!! So we've been renting movies from Netflix and since there aren't isn't a huge variety there either, I've taken to renting shows that I've either missed or haven't seen in a really really long time! First up on the list.....


I seriously adored this show when it was on and watched every single episode from every single season! It has been so long that I feel as though I am pretty much watching it for the first time. I completely forgot all about Felicity's tapes to Sally! And I honestly do not recall Sally ever talking back (which she does at the end of each episode). I finished the first DVD from Season 1 and am anxiously awaiting the 2nd. I am really loving this idea!!

The Sh$% Hits the Fan - Say it isn't so!!!

Bachelorette Winner Cheated With Two Different Women

Apparently the "rumors" have finally come to a head and the alleged "other women", yes, it's a plural, are coming forward. Is Ed a snake in the grass blinding Jillian or is a he guy suddenly in the limelight falling victim to claims by women wanting attention? Apparently Jillian believes the latter and is standing by her man according to this article on TVWatch. What are your thoughts? I personally am not trying to make any harsh judgments from the start. Jillian lives with this man and has been spending time with him. However, if it is all true I feel that this man has not only done Jillian wrong, but all of The Bachelor/Bachelorette fans as well and it makes him worse than Weaselly Wes in my opinion! Even during all the "rumors" going around on the net and all fans calling Ed creepy etc, I was still loyal to "Team Ed"! Am I still holding out hope that all of this isn't true? Sure - for Jillian's sake! But that doesn't mean I'm optimistic about it! What do you think?

Ann Taylor Loft 30% Off!

I received this email yesterday and am just getting to post it now since I spent the whole day out for a Dr's appt! I am so excited! ATL has quite a few cute things for fall that I like and with the 30% it's great!! I really like the Ruffle Wrap Dress for $79.50 - it comes in this gorgeous blue color. A trip to my local ATL is definitely in store ;)

As an added bonus, if you use the coupon code online for the 30% off and you spend $125+ you also get Free Shipping!! The coupon code is "Friends30" Enjoy!!!

Bachelorette Finale & ATFR Recap!

So I am finally getting to post about the finale and AFTFR and I am psyched! I was anxiously awaiting Monday and couldn't wait until the time came. I always get so funny when I'm watching the finale's, lol. I get super-excited/nervous and when the moment finally comes I sit there sucking in my breath and practically covering my eyes!! Ultimately I think Jillian made the right choice choosing Ed! I was so happy that those spoilers (or should I say rumors) I came across weren't true!! From the moment Ed walked in to the room on the first show I just had a gut feeling and once they went on that first date, I called it! I have been correct pretty much every single season with the exception of 2 ;) Jillian & Ed make such an adorable couple and they seem to really compliment each other!

I felt so bad for Kiptyn! I think she did the right thing, but you could just see the disappointment wash over his face when he realized what was about to happen. I think that even though I felt like there was something "off" about him, that he genuinely had feelings for Jillian. I hope that he meets a great girl after all of this!!!

And Reid, omg! I give him major kudo's for having the guts to go by a ring himself and fly back to not only tell Jillian how he truly felt, but to propose as well! That was a ballsy move!! I think he might have been a teensy bit too sure of himself, but I still think that it was really sweet that he put himself out there like that. I felt bad for Reid also. I know it must have been so hard for Jillian to make that choice, which brings me to.....

The After the Final Rose show! Kinda boring, but I could just feel the pain and tension coming off the screen when Jillian and Reid were on together! I'm guessing there were probably some little Jillian/Ed tiffs going on after that show!! Poor Jillian looked like she was so confused - did anyone else think that? And Reid, well you could just tell that he was still really hurt and maybe holding out hope that she was going to change her mind? And how funny was that girl that came up and asked him on a date!! lol. These guys are going to have NO problems meeting girls after being on this show - they'll need to fight them off!

So who do you think/hope with be the next Bachelor? There are lots of "rumors" and speculation swirling around! My vote would be for Jake. He's caught a lot of flack for being the way he is but I LOVED him!!! I do think that he would have a really hard time letting women go though - he seems like he might be too nice to be able to deal with that. I guess we will see and I hope it's soon!!!

If you fell in love with Jillian's style on the show and want to know where she gets her clothing or jewelry, check out the fashion and jewelry roundups on my other blog and on Possessionista Is there an outfit or item Jillian was wearing (or anyone else for that matter) that you can't find on the blog? Contact Dana from Possessionista! She is THE fashion sleuth =)

My New Addiction!

Last night there was nothing on TV - absolutely nothing!!! So I started flipping channels and came across Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood on Oxygen. I've always liked Tori Spelling and had watched an episode or two of the first season, so I figured I would give it a go. I found myself quickly being sucked in to this show! First of all, let me just say that Tori Spelling seems like the nicest person!!! I'm putting emphasis on the "seems" part because I don't actually know her obviously, but she really does seem so genuine. Even after being stalked at the Farmer's Market by an uber creepy fan girl and being asked question after ridiculous question she remained so nice! Now I'm going to have to go OnDemand and see if I can find the older shows ;) Anyone else watch it? What do you think?

Bachelorette Gossip

I received the Hollywood Gossip newsletter this morning and there was a ton of gossip and speculation surrounding this season of The Bachelorette! Maybe I'm late in seeing all of this, but wow!! If it's all true I feel so bad for Jillian. I am a huge fan and she seems like such a sweet and genuine woman. She does not deserve the shenanigans that went on with these "boys" this season!!! If you do not want to read possible spoilers, DO NOT READ =) So anyway, on to business....

Rumor #1
This is one that has been going around pretty much since the beginning of the show and I'm sure one that everyone has heard by now - that Kiptyn has already signed to be the next Bachelor and has known for some time! Maybe this is what I've been sensing all along? That this "rumor" might be true? So that leaves me wondering where all of this fits in if it is true. Does Jillian know? I don't really understand how ABC could really do something like that without her knowing about it. Kiptyn and Jill's interactions have seemed very rehearsed to me at times. Maybe this explains it?

moving on.....

Rumor #2
Another rumor that has been going around since the last show is that Reid comes back on the finale and tells Jillian how he feels. Don't get me wrong, I am a HUGE Ed fan, but I kind of hope this is true and I kind of hope Jillian chooses to be with Reid - you'll see why when we move on to #3 ;) I thought Reid and Jill seemed to have the best natural banter going on and he seemed truly sincere. I think the goofiness they share is a major thing necessary for a relationship and seemed to be what Jillian is looking for.

And last but not least, the bombshell...

Rumor #3
Ed is rumored to have a GF back home!! ED...HAS...A...GF....WHAT THE HECK?!?! Let me just say that if this is true it infuriates me!!! I have been rooting for Ed the whole show. I have been a loyal "Ed & Jillian" fan from day 1 and this totally changes my opinion of him! Apparently Ed was dating a girl back home and left her high and dry to come on the show. And the kicker? Apparently when she questioned him about it he said that she just has to wait out the show, giving her the impression that they were still together and would be after the show is over!! And apparently Ed proposes??? What?!?!

What is with these guys this season?! This is worse than all the catty girls on past seasons of The Bachelor!!! So I guess in a couple weeks we will see. I wish we didn't have to wait that long. All I can say is poor Jillian, I hope Reid comes to rescue you from this mess!!!

Oh, and a little shameless promotion here ;) If you're wondering where Jillian got the adorable earrings she is wearing in the photo above, they are the Jasmine Filigree Earrings from Stella & Dot available for purchase in my e-boutique. They are one of my absolute favorite pieces of jewelry - even before Jillian was wearing them on the show ;) Have a great weekend everyone!!!

The Bachelorette and a creepy movie!

Monday nights are one of my favorite nights and it's because I spend most of my night watching one of my most favorite shows. I loved Jillian on The Bachelor. I fell in love with her cute charm, adventurous personality and most of all, well ........ her wardrobe! There is no denying that the girl has an exceptional sense of style!! So I was super excited when I found out she was going to be the next Bachelorette. I have loved the season so far and have really enjoyed watching all the drama that has ensued - especially over Weasely Wes!!! ACK! Which brings me to last nights show....

I thought the Hawaii trip went great. Jillian was rocking some extra-cute clothes, was in a beautiful place and had the company of 3 great guys! Her date with Kiptyn looked like a lot of fun. A little scary .... but fun. Definitely fitting for both of them. Kiptyn seemed like he was very attentive and the affection between them was cute. But do I think Kiptyn is the guy for Jillian? No. I think he is so handsome, seems like a lot of fun, but I have just had this "off" feeling about him from the beginning. I've never been able to put my finger on exactly what it is. I just question his sincerity.

Moving on to Jillian's date with Reid. I thought this date seemed like it went really well! There seems to be an easiness when Jillian and Reid are together. I think they seemed to fit really well. I thought it was pretty obvious how Reid felt about her and that the reason he was holding back was because he was scared. Whenever he was around her in these settings he seemed to be a cross between a man in awe and a scared little boy. I think Reid made a HUGE mistake in not opening up and just laying it out there on the line for her. But I don't think she should have held it against him. I thought her feelings of Kiptyn possibly breaking her heart would definitely win over in the end.

The last date with Ed!! I absolutely LOVE Ed! I was sooooo happy when he came back!! I think Ed is the guy for Jillian and have thought that he would be the last man standing since she first spoke to him after his late arrival in the premier. I don't know what it is about Ed, but I just feel that there is a genuine connection there. I think he is a nice mix of all the guys and is exactly what Jillian is looking for. He has Kiptyn's adventurous side that Jill loves so much, Reid's humor and funny banter, he's sensitive and charming and have I mentioned HOT?! What more could a girl ask for?! So the date seemed like it had a fantastic start. I wasn't sure about Ed's little shortie shorts, but hey ... you can't judge a guy on his choice of bathing suits right? I mean it wasn't a speedo at least!! I thought it really showed just how serious Ed is in the fact that he had his parents fly out to Hawaii. He knew how important that was in Jillian's decision making process and it shows that he really cares about her and wants to stay. Now on to the "elephant in the room". I feel so bad for Ed. I really do. Obviously his little mishap is going to be the topic of conversation everywhere today and that is one of the things he is going to be most remembered for. I know it's reality TV and you have to have drama - but c'mon!! Cut the guy some slack for pete sake!!! I just didn't think that it was necessary to air all of that. So he had some issues .... so what!! I am glad though that Jillian talked to him before sending him home because of his little "no-show" so to speak ;)

So she kept Kiptyn and sent Reid home. Definitely not the decision I would have made, but it's a moot point because she is going to pick Ed!!! Could I be right? I guess we'll see in two weeks!! I can't wait for next weeks show and I really hope it turns into "let's slam Wes" show. I'm not a mean person. I just think the guy deserves it. I'm curious to see if he has the guts to be there. I doubt it, but then again you never know!



In addition to watching The Bachelorette, I also watched The Unborn. It was definitely creepy. Not one of my most favorite movies, but not a complete waste of time either. There were definitely some parts of it that I found disturbing ... in a good way. And it didn't hurt that hottie Cam Gigandet was in it either. If you're a horror fan I definitely think it's rent worthy. If not, you might want to skip it ;)